Putting together great adult ads needn’t be difficult, but people still do have trouble crafting the right message. This is understandable. You need to say who you are, work out what you want, work out what you need, and then find a coherent way to say that which gets across the basics, but doesn’t come across as too pushy or picky. But like I said, this is not actually difficult, it is just people think it is difficult. To put together a great ad for online dating, all you need to do, is be yourself, be imaginative, be funny, and make sure you are 100% sure of what you are after in the online dating world. If you put together these pieces, you ad will stand out from all the rest.
You have probably been told a million times that ‘a picture paints a thousand words’, and, for once, this adage is true. You can get so much further with good photos than words will ever do. Humans are primarily visual creatures and something that looks good will always pique our interest. Think, would you really be interested in a women’s profile if it didn’t have pictures attached? Everyone, including women, want to know what they are getting into, and what they are getting. To this end, make sure you have some great pictures to put up. This means recent pictures showing you not only looking good, but doing good. Action photos are the best, as they allow the people looking at the images to imagine themselves in the middle of the action as well. If you have pictures of you horseback riding in Texas, looking all cowboy, then put those up – pictures like this will get miles further than any picture of your bicep ever will.
Put Yourself On Display
There are some things which everyone says in these type of adult ads. If they are after a relationship then they are going to say they are fun, easy going, friendly, etc. If they are just after a hook up, then the qualities that are going to list are likely to be related to the bedroom department. Whatever the type of ad, there are some things that never change.What is fair more memorable, far more attractive, and far more likely to actually help you succeed online is if you give specific examples of all of the greatness that surrounds you. If you are fun, then tell a story that shows you in that light, or just concoct some silliness to put online so that the women can literally see you being fun, if only in writing. If you are friendly, tell the listeners (readers) about the trip you took with your friends, or what you get up to with your social crowd during the weekends. This types of stories allow women to get a real handle on you and to start to see you as a real-life person, someone they want in their lives.
Softly, Softly, Catchy Lady
It can be tempting to go all out when trying to woo women through classified sex ads. You want to get all of your positive qualities over in the first paragraph of your adult ads on LocalHotClassifieds so that you knock her off her feet and she instantly messages you back. But in reality this is not what happens and, instead of turning her on with your stories of sports cars and marathon gym sessions, you actually just turn her off and she passes on to the next ad. Instead what you need to do is start softly and gently and then ramp up the information and her enthusiasm over time. Instead of trying to tell her everything, pick one element of your personality, and perhaps one element of you looks and just focus on that. For instance, “people say my lips flame like scarlet wine, but choosing to stick with just white wine, I wouldn’t know.” Silly, but also memorable and teasing, allowing her to imagine your ruby red lips (OK, this one works better the other way around, but you get my drift).
One thing many guys forget about is to include some of the more important facts about yourself that a women does not want to remain a mystery. The most important of these would probably be age, as people are always looking for dates within a certain age range. Do not try and cheat here, just come clean with however old you are and you will still meet plenty of nice women. You’ll also have to say where you are from, as people will get pissed if they have been chatting you up online, only to find out that you live in the wilds of Alaska. Also, what do you want? You are here on this site to get something, be that a date, a relationship, or just some fun. If you are up front about what you want then it saves everyone’s blushes in the long term and everyone can have fun with confidence.